Smile at him. Push him into a couch, take his shoes off, giggle, tease him ( just a bit! ) make him feel like he is a KING. There is no way someone can feel the contents of the product. There are no distractions. Some foods are thought to have sexually stimulating properties, such as black pepper, asparagus, ginseng, red wine, oysters, dark chocolate and avocado. Never give him a blow job under the cover, or in the dark.